I suppose it boils down to the fact that your penis is visually obvious and so attracts comment in the same way that breasts and bums do. But then there is the physical sensation side which men just won't know about, and here is where the personal preferences occur when push comes to shove.

I've only ever heard men discuss a particular woman's vaginal size once, and this was when I was a teenager. Men don't generally want to upset women so this will remain a taboo area. Also there is the reflection on the man if he were to say that someone was very loose as opposed to there being no problem if a woman happened to be small and referred to a man being big.

I was very promiscuous when I was much younger and I had sex with women who were too tight for me and too loose for me (you can judge my size from my pic below). Too tight is worse than too loose, but whilst I didn't have any problem with the sex, because penetration is only one aspect, I have to admit that these relationships didn't go any further, though the friendships did.

I don't think that most women are conscious of their size relative to other women - how would you know? and frankly I don't think that it really matters. You're never going to see the guys off Friends discuss their partner's vagina size.

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