Yes, that is pretty selfish actually, and yes it has happened to me in the past, so I do understand your frustration and anger. I am sorry it happened to you, as you did not deserve it, no one does.

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"And as we all play parts of tomorrow, some ways will work and other ways we'll play. And I know we can't all stay here forever, so I'll write, my words on the face of today...and then they'll paint it" - Shannon Hoon