I've seen it done both ways wyndhy. Some folks don't need to tell their SO's about this place, but it sounds like maybe you do. It's entirely up to you....really. But can I ask if, when you tell him, you're thinking of presenting it as a place that's yours that you think he should know about? Or a place that you've discovered, love, and would like to share with him. Cause it might make a real difference....and it might tell you something about why you're nervous. I'm not sure, it's just a random thought.

Do what you have to do for you, hon....we're here for you one way or the other .