I've said it before & I'll say it again-Different strokes,for different folks!My wife & I weren't celibate at marriage,got married at 21,&
have been married 39yrs today.That doesn't mean that it will work for everyone.I,ve always said that marriage is like fishing.
You have your "catch & release" & you have your "keepers".Every
person has faults,that the other doesn't like.You have to weigh
the pros & cons,to decide on a "keeper". Irish
P.S.Just my $.02.I'm not a relationship expert,I just play one on TV

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)