If it's really true that this is a flame free forum...then I have found my heaven.


For the past 2...yes 2 years I have had my own website that I finally closed down entirely a month ago. I closed it due to all the nasty people who would flame strangers and friends alike.

I kept telling these fine folks at my website that there WAS a big difference between telling someone "fuck you dahling" and yelling FUCK OFF! to people. You CAN communicate clearly by the written/typed word and you CAN PURPOSELY hurt other people with your words.

Anyway, I miss the friends I closed shop on but I do NOT miss the painful feelings that went along with owning a place what was filled with mean spirit and unkind thoughts.

I am a peacemaker and a lover....and they tried to make me feel shame about the fact that I just did not want to fight...

ah well....long story. VERY long tiring story.

Anyhoo, am enjoying the peaceful give and take that I see happening here.


Carry on kids.