I call it

"Don't rob me of my blessings."

I feel that if I can do something nice for someone, especially if they don't know how to do it, I have been blessed with the intelligence or "know how" to help them. When they offer to pay me or feel as if they are indebted to me.. that is what I tell them.

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A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults.