I enjoy lots of foreplay, getting the woman off before I even slide my hard shaft into the love nest of my lover. Using my hands and lips and tongue and words to seduce her. I also enjoy having a woman do the seducing. And I enjoy teasing and turning on a woman in public. If I do a good job, she will want it no matter where we are. And different women want different things. Find out what makes her panties wet and use the knowledge for good and not evil, however a little nasty evil isn't bad. Let the woman know you like her dressing up for you. After all a woman is a gift to a man and part of the enjoyment of a gift is in the unwrapping. I guess the answer to the question for me is pleasing the woman is what I think I try to do the best.

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A man's pleasure is pleasing and pleasuring the woman. She always cums first.