You're absolutely right, it'll get better eventually....but you can't possibly tell them that. They're not ready to hear it. But it's not about what you have to say....it's about being there to listen, give hugs...and help them remember how to laugh when they're ready.

Relationships are gonna change all around, if my life's anything to go by. You won't know how the chips are gonna fall until the end. And at some point you're going to have to remind yourself that as much as it hurts, this isn't about you or your hubby....that you can't fix it, can't control it, and shouldn't get drawn into blaming anyone for it. Sometimes, bad things happen to good people. It doesn't have to be anyone's fault.

(((Gilly))), I'm so sorry you're going through this. Hang in there.