My wife knows about Pixies. She's helped me take a few pictures and has seen my threads as well as some others I've steered her to. I'm not sure if she's ever posted an replies under my name though. It's not really her bag.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.