My hubby knows about Pixies but isn't interested in spending time here. I've had him look at threads that I thought were particularly good, And I've told him about others. I talk about fellow Pixies sometimes and tell him funny or interesting things you've said. Grumble is staying at our home on his trip..... still find it hard to believe hubby agreed to it! He doesn't object to me being a member, he just says I spend to much time on the computer. So Pixies is not a secret, but I'll admit that some of what I do & say on here and one special person are a secret. So I'm just as glad he's not a member.