I agree that violence is a big no no, however I think if here bf is truly trying to change and is willing to goto counselling [both private and couple] then she should give him a chance. Even if they go on a break for a while I think that the guy could use a chance. I am not saying he deserves one after hitting her, and by all means I think just staying with him reinforces his bad behavior. I do however think that it is best if he will agree to goto personal and couple counselling and she stays with him to support him through this time of trial. She needs counselling and support too and should probably go on a break with him for now, but I think that she should not break off contact with the guy or say we r through forever if he is willing to get help, because then he has no reason to get help and he will only stay the same and victomize another girl. This guy needs help and support and if he is willing to get help, I say stay and support him.

I know my ideas my be unpopular, but that's my two cents.

ClassyDJ