Well I have lost a child, my first, many years ago and it took me years to deal with his death. I have two heathly sons now, ages 15 and 12 and for that I thank God. I have very strong feelings where the death of a child is concerned, and yes I do consider a "fetus" a child!

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I like the bed I'm sleeping in, just like me it's broken in; it's not old -- just older.
Like a favorite pair of torn blue jeans, this skin I'm in it's alright with me; it's not old -- just older.....Bon Jovi