I agree that 'slut' is just a label and shouldn't exist, but it DOES exist.

If you are prepared to fight against that label, and accept the limitations which it will inevitably bring, then carry on the way you are. Because there will be guys who may not want to be with a woman who has slept with lots of other people etc. and there will be girls who'll talk behind your back etc.

I'm not saying that they are right to judge you in this way, but you WILL be judged and your life will be affected if you carry on the way you are.

You may not FEEL like a slut, you may not even think you act like one, but if other people think you act like one, then you will be treated like one. This means men using you for sex (which may be fine now, but when you meet someone you fall in love with, you may feel differently) and women not wanting to offer you the friendship that everyone needs.

If I were you, I'd also examine the way your behaviour has changed so radically since your split with your long term boyfriend at the beginning of the year. Might it be that you're using sex as a way to boost your ego after your break-up?


Just some things I think you might want to consider.

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