WELCOME TO PIXIES mystical !!!

I think it's terrific your seeking help in this. You're a very caring, thoughtful lover. How lucky the ladies in your life will be to have someone who takes the time and effort to learn how to please them. As was suggested, have her show you. The best thing you can do is talk, asking what/how she likes it. And remember each women is different. Always communicate!!

Good luck and have fun!