If you've been nervous about trying it for awhile, it's very possible that the stress and anxiety built up so much that you passed out from it when he finally followed through with the act. I know it's a very embarassing thing to bring up to a doctor, but so is a digital exam for prostate cancer...and that's a documented case of "pride can kill you".

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.