You know... this is just my old-fashioned opinion, but here goes...

When I was younger, there was a great guy in our group who- although very interested in women and in getting laid- never paired up with any female. He never sparked with any of them, you know? Then Angie came along and everything changed for him. It was like he suddenly found what he didn't even know he'd been waiting for. They sparked in a huge way!

MM, maybe your "Angie" hasn't come along yet. From what I've seen and read from you, you're a fabulous guy, and VERY nice to look at, not to mention very sexy! You feel like, at 21, you're some kind of dinosaur, but you're not!

I have a daughter who is 22, and will be marrying her sweetheart this summer. She spent over 21 years of her life as a virgin... she'd just never met anyone that she cared enough about. Then she found her guy and it all changed.... and she feels that the wait was definitely worth it!

It'll happen when you least expect it... the spark.

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


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It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
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