Thanks for the responses

Romial... I have been thinking of buying a web cam myself... I had one a long time ago but it was a very cheap one and didn't work well. Getting the courage to use it will be another matter entirely.

DB... I believe that you are completely right, masturbation has its place even within a committed relationship... whether that be Marriage or otherwise And soooo glad I got ya weee bit horny I thought I might be able to count on you!!!

Lilith... and that would be the reason why I need to buy a headboard!!! LOL

PF... I so love the way you think If I buy a headboard.. I will buy a cam to go along with it

bordendazed... I think that masturbation isn't as taboo as it once was... Lucky for me.