well considering that a size 12 is considered big now, it's kinda hard to get rid of the saying, yeah i hear it all the time " man she's cute but she's chubby" sometimes i just want to be like up yours buddy. i guess it all comes down to how you view the word "big" personaly i find it to be liberating in the sence that it does set me appart from the croud that i can be the size that i am ( 16) and still be pretty
anyway that was my two cents

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