The only advice I can give you is, if there are kids involved:

1) NEVER ask your children to keep a secret from their other parent (i.e. your ex)

2) Don't bitch about your ex to your kids, and don't allow any new partner you have to bitch about your ex in front of the kids either.

3) DON'T expect your children to be 'grown up' about the situation while you and your ex are fighting and behaving like kids.


As a child of divorced parents I speak from experience.

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