my only advice would be to allow yourself to go thru all the emotions.. don't attempt to cover things up within yourself.. if you do so, it will eventually result in a valcano effect... and you don't need that.

Take your time to grieve... yes.. grieve... divorce is like death in many ways.. even harder. In death.. you can funnel your anger or unresolved feelings towards many things.. often deflecting them... but unfortunately.. in death.. those targets are REAL.. and often blame and hurt become internalized...

take your time... BUT.. don't hold on to it.. you need to choose a moment.. a time.. when moving forward (no matter how difficult it might be) feels RIGHT... listen to your heart.. your soul.. your entire being...

BECAUSE... when all is said and done.. .the one person in this world that will NEVER turn their back on you... is YOU.

HUGS..