flutelady - you have it spot on, I think.

I have to say that I really fucking hate when people ask for advice, you give them good advice which often comes from personal experience, and because it doesn't condone the course of action they wish to take, they ignore your advice.

My attitude is, if you aren't going to take advice, don't ask for it, or if you ignore the advice given, then don't come back and ask for more help when it all goes tits up.

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