My 8yr old daughter loves watching the bbc version of "What not to wear". Considering my taste in clothing, I don't discourage her. I suppose watching Trinny grope Susannah's chest and say "You can wear a top like this because you've got tits." might be a little graphic, but my daughter will be amply endowed when she grows up. It's important that she is comfortable with her body and not embarassed by her chest (like my wife was throughout school) and seeing them talked about it nonchalantly in a discussion about clothing isn't harmful in my opinion.

Start talking about how someone put their hand on your ass, or was caressing your tits and we've got a problem. Then it's time to send the kids out of the room while I carefully monitor the show.

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