If you send a PM and they do not deny receipt, then look in your message tracking I think it tells you when they were last online. Some things have to stay the way they are to avoid misuse of features. It's not anyone's business when you were last online, frankly. That is why people are permitted to perv invisibly.

As for uploading ....They are uploaded to the server/site. If you mean, allowing {IMG} I hate it!!!! I don't agree that it's a good idea. If you image load it would auto open and many people turn off avs and choose not to open attachments at work or if they have others at home. And if someone stops paying for their webspace, etc. then our site gets left with a zillion tiny X boxes.

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