exhib_it_all,
The PM system here is like an IN-house mail system. Every member is entitled to use it. Members can easily not accept an unwanted PM by denying receipt. There is a specific place to click that option. There is nothing disrespectful about PMMing someone and asking if they mind if you send them a PM. Members who have a problem with a PM, or a member abusing the PM system, can forward it to me and I can remove their right to use the system or anything else for all that matters.

There is a box in your options that says enable private messaging. If you see a PM button on the bottom of their posts then they chose to accept PMs.

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