I get very apprehensive when I am about to offer my opinion in the advice section - so please this is just an opinion.

No, you are not an idiot and no don't do the age-old male Ostrich act and deal with it. Relationships (especially when you are making a marriage comittment) are a two way street.

I have spent the last twenty years learning to be more sensitive about what other people feel. What I have thick skin over, someone else may be highly sensitive about and vice versa (I haven't got a licence in this yet though). If you are the normal guy you say, then you will upset your fiance over something that you consider utterly trivial. There should be a resounding "amen brother" from all the guys at this point

This site constantly throws things up and I have never seen it said that Vibes are addctive. But again this is a sensitivity issue that your Fiance needs not to take for granted. Whilst she may need to realise the reality of being let loose in the candy store, you would do well to treat this threat as an opportunity - you have a sexually liberated Fiance who loves sex - you have (if you let it) lots of time to grow to know each other - it takes time and the journey is great fun.

Good Luck.

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