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I hope that since Tink has found the answer she was looking for perhaps I could get some advice? It is along the same topic and I did not think it completely worth of its own thread. So here goes.

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Yes I agree with Lil too but have a little more to add.

except for a small percentage, 3somes are detrimental to a significant S/O relationship.

It opens the door for suspicion and jealousy. If you really love and value someone the best bet is to stay momogamous.

Your involvement would not enhance your ex's relationship and if you have design's on him then use a different tactic. This one could blow up in your face big time.

My girl has been talking about 3somes a lot since we got back together, she says it would be good for her writing but... I got back together with her because I reallized I want her all to my self. Yet, with such a thing as her career and future (both senior high schoolers, young neh?) I feel like not supporting her in her desires is dentrimental to her future. She wisehs to be a romantic/erotic novelists and tells me that to write about such experiances she will have had to experiance them.

Before she and I were ever together these ideas would completely have disgusted her, she has made a complete 180 over the last 9 months, I don't see it as worse, only she is more sexually minded (adventurous) than I now!

I guess I simply don't know what to do. If I loved her wouldn't I let her.. but because I love her shouldn't I want to...