punkgrrl18 -

I think you may have missed my point somewhat. In your original post you made it sound as though you were upset that he was lusting after the women in the porn films. My point is, he probably isn't. It's just watching the sexual act is a turn on.

I also got the impression that his porn vids were for his solo use, in which case, for men at least, visual stimulation is important for masturbation, when there is no other person there.

I think it's clear from your posts that you are insecure and seem incredibly muddled emotionally right now. I really hope you think seriously about your decision to marry someone you've only been with for a short amount of time. You are very young still, and I think you should take some time to get to know and love yourself a little better before you commit yourself to a lifetime with someone else. After all, if you and your guy, are going to with each other for ever, there is no hurry to tie the knot, is there?


I know you will probably think I'm totally out of place saying this, but I would be doing you a dis-service if I didn't mention this to you now. I really hope everything works out for you.

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