
02-08-2004, 11:33 AM
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Mrs FussyPucker
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Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: England
Posts: 3,635
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pinkbutton - you're not going to like me for this one little bit, but can I refer you to one of your earlier threads (I'm assuming this relates to the same guy, after all you say you don't go around sleeping with just anyone):
http://pixies-place.com:81/forums/s...ight=pinkbutton
Seems like a lot of people warned you about the situation in which you now find yourself (i.e. getting too attached and emotionally involved with this friend of yours)
Whether you are ready to admit it or not, you are emotionally involved with your fuck buddy and the situation is now making you miserable. Being in an open marriage is harder than most of us think, and I worry about your future with Pudsey. He agreed you could have sex with this guy, but I'm pretty sure he wouldn't have given you the go ahead to fall in love with him. If I were Pudsey, I'd be pretty hurt by how much you're letting this guy's new relationship get to you. And if I were the new guy I'd be pretty annoyed that you want to be his top priority, even though he's not yours.
As many a person has found out in the past, having your cake and eating it isn't all it's cracked up to be.
Good luck with your situation, but don't say we didn't warn you.
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