In answer to lilith

It happenned with a rush. I was very flattered when curvy PM'ed me and we started to email. I was very wary having being badly burnt before so I used the open honest approach and told her what had happened previously and the concerns I had about even entering a relationship that would end up in a dead end and causing pain.

the answers were all positive, the biggest one that if it all came together she not only would move to tasmania but would love to.

There was already some vibes between us and we started asking questions of the other and learnt about each others pasts and situation. We have such compatible thoughts, feelings and ideals. We have spent a lot of time on the phone and the conversations are so natural like we have known each other all our lives. If you asked me a month ago whether you could meet someone and just gel instantly I would have laughed.

But it has happened to me ..... no it has happenned to us ....... I always said that I admired pixies ladies, it is because they are open, sexual, caring and sharing. My love fits that mould plus she has a thing for one particular Grumble.

We want to stay pixies and what great role models we have with Sharni and Bilbo, Celtic Angel and DM. They share themselves and their love for each other all through Pixies and it is such a joy to me to see it.

I didn't shy away even though the hurt is very much lurking close in the background. Every day brings messages of love and actions that show love and purpose to persue the goal of being together. Only today i got a message saying that my love was contacting a study overseas program so she could finish her degree (she is a mature age student) at the University of Tasmania and it is a possibilty she could be here for the second semester of our academic year which starts in late July I think.

Perhaps fairytales do come true, I am a very romantic man and think that this is a match that should be persued with vigour because I feel the person is absolutely suited to me, we both find the other attractive on all levels, we both have the desire to make the other happy and agree that openess, honesty and communication will be our creed. We have both had failed marriages and have leant from it.

Aside from the romantic feelings which are very prevalent for us both, the practical points have been deeply considered also.

I have written this because I do not want people to be concerned that I am giving way to romantic and lustful feelings like a teenager. There are all the basics for a lifelong happy union that have been discussed and considered and life is too short to procastinate if you have found what you want and not go for it.

I must say that my phone bill will be a tad larger this month LOL

I am incredibly honoured and happy to have been blessed with my beautiful future S/O.