Oh I agree, and wholeheartedly, Sharni, he does need some actual professional help. And he has tried seeking it, on his own and at my and others urgings. Just this past fall he tried, but for some reason, I don't know I am not there with him, the therapists don't listen to him or think he's full of malarky. So usually he comes and talks to me, for whatever help my psych degree will afford him.

Not trying to get pity for him, but just trying to let you know that he does know that he needs help.

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