I typed "soldier's girl" into the amazon.com search area and it was the first thing that popped up. You can probably find at the local blockbuster but it came out sometime in 2004 so it's fairly new. I guess I must have caught the premier or something.

Salina on amazon.com gave this review of the movie and I think it describes the movie PERFECTLY.

"Finally a true depiction of what love without gender boundries can really be. A beautiful love story, truly beautifully acted with a horrific ending. A good education for those who not realize what can exist between two people without regard to gender. That love can grow between two minds and not just between the sheets. Watch with an open mind and come away with a fresh outlook. A must see."

This movie is definitely worth looking for at the local blockbuster, you will not regret it.