He had in mind a threesome involving another woman. I certainly wouldn't mind having a threesome with another man, but I'm not sure how he would feel about that. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, but I wouldn't want to push him into something he would be uncomfortable with, so we'll probably see how it goes with another woman first (if we decide to go through with it at all). Thanks so much to everyone for the responses so far You're all the best!

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I am certain of nothing but the holiness of the heart's affections and the truth of imagination. What the imagination seizes as beauty must be truth - whether it existed before or not.
-John Keats