We enjoy anal intercourse ocasionally, but my wife has to be in the mood. We never have anal sex if she doesn't want it. Her anus wasn't designed for my penis, but she allows me to penetrate her when is fully aroused. Our golden rule is "too much lube is never enough!" I have an average sized penis so my wife's intial discomfort wasn't too bad, although she has stated a larger penis would cause her to think twice.

Foreplay is essential and anal massage is our way of preparing for penetration. We prefer to use a condom. At first, I wore two to avoid breakage and to delay my ejaculation. I never 'rush' in but take it gradually allowing her to get use to me. With patience and practice I have managed to fully pentrate my wife anally, and she has enjoyed many orgasms.