Casper,

a) get your self-confidence up from the depths of that smelly swampland called Depression

It is hard to look on the bright side when you realize that your life has never gone right. It just seems like my purpose in life is to be laughed at and mocked.

b) show her you care, be supportive through her very difficult time, let her know you've got a caring, sensitive side that would be a nice comparison to the dickhead who dumped her

In my foolish youth, I tried being the knight in shining armor only to find out that the girl will always choose the douchebag. Heck, had one girl choose her abusive boyfriend over me and he wound up killing her in a domestic dispute.

c) plan how you're going to court her. It's a sad reality, but girls don't just decide to sleep with you for no reason at all.

No, usually they pick reasons like he has a big cock, he has a shitload of money, this guy will piss off my parents.

One has to seduce them, woo them, court them. It takes work, but so does everything in life. Wouldn't it be worth it, to have a wonderful loving relationship?

I don't know if I have the work output and put in long agonizing months jsut to fuck this girl. I mean a wonderful loving relationship would be nice, but hey I stopped believing in them when my fiancee left.

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Well sir that seems to be someone else's problem.