I'm in agreement with Lilith.....and I'll go a step further!

The signals you put out will stimulate the result you get in return!

So....let's go down that list of 5.......

1) She just broke up with him! Woman don't just forget love.......she may love him the rest of her life for that matter.....but that doesn't mean she's IN love with him! There is a difference! It may not be the best time to expect her to begin a relationship.....but it's not unheard of! Just give her a little time and be there for her.

2) Don't know why you don't have any money.....but not everything revolves around it. If/when you do date this girl.....you'll find resources. Is a part time job out of the question?

3) Her mom might be your best bet here...but don't go schmoozing her just to get the green light! Be yourself....and if mom happens to like you....so be it! It could be worse....mom could actually want you for herself! Yikes! But seriously.....ok...you got the "kiss of death"....so don't hang out where mom can see what a "nice boy" you are. The subject need not come up again if you aren't available to compare to others!

4) If you already knew the answers.......how could you have misread the signs? Don't dub yourself "all knowing" in one breath and then feel that you've failed miserably in the next! I reiterate my first statement....The signals you put out will stimulate the result you get in return! If you KNOW you are going to fail before an attempt....you probably will in the end! Why not think of it like this....."This time I'm going to go about this differently....show confidence.....think positive......and at least I can say that I tried my best"! And....if indeed things do fail......take note of obvious mistakes and learn from them!

5) There is help for obsessive/compulsive disorder (O.C.D.).....and keep your philanges away from sharp objects!

Good luck hun! You'll only fail miserably if you let yourself fail miserably!

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