I have used Lavalife .. and go onto the woman line section.. i am in the same boat as u.. just curious about being with a woman..
lavalife is cool because there are people of all ages there.. and u can chose what kind od realationship you are looking for.. and it is annonymous.. its pretty cool.u chose who u want to talk to..

anyway.. that worked for me,
im curious too..
-ElizaLavalife