I completely agree that communication is vital in the survival of a relationship. We were simply brought up so differently, we both speak in our own way and simply can't seem to understand what the hell the other one is talking about. We've worked on it the entire time we've been together and so far, no success.

As for therapy, because of my disability I've seen enough shrinks to obtain something I call "Hatred with a passion" for anything psycological. So obviously that wouldn't work.

Okay, since I do want to save this relationship if possible, how does everyone suggest I confront her with all these problems. Please keep in mind she is as emotional as shit and will probably end up tearing up before the end of my first sentence. All I can say is help, I love her so much and I can't stand the idea of hurting her like that again, especially after I've proposed to her for the SECOND time.