1. "politely tell him that although it's an interesting thought, I'm married and it isn't right? Physically, I'm tempted. Emotionally & rationally...no, and ta-ta." Yup - that's what you should say.


3. Don't believe in desensitising - after all, practice makes perfect. Only one session a week sounds like either a) you're over-worked or b) you are rationing yourself. Still, a dozen orgasms a week is still more than a lot of ladies get. If you take your machine on holiday with you have plenty of time to relax and enjoy life, I bet you will be changing the batteries much more frequently.