I caught a glimpse of a friend's sister coming out of the bathroom after her shower, wearing just a towel around her head. I only saw her reflection in the mirror and was transfixed. He saw the glazed look and shouted out "don't come in here" to her. Damn him! So yes...the voyeur totally took over.

There was another example, but it hurts just to think of it. *shivers*

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.