I second DM's statements. There are times when having sex with someone else sounds very appealing -- it's easy to get into a rut in your relationship and want something that's just different to what you've been experiencing.

However, at the end of the day...everyone needs someone to come home to. You know, the person who makes all the BS in life worthwhile. And that person isn't likely to be your fling...

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney