Have decided after many moods and occasional depression that this will not do. New avatar on the way. I think I have a silly pic of me...somewhere. Also decided that tentative was not the way to be about sex and love. So, am getting feet warm first, then other parts of the anatomy. Mostly those of neglect. I've also purchased two books on the Kama Sutra and am delving into other areas. Can't get into S & M, though. Just wanted to say "Hi" and "Happy New Year"! I've got a new computer, too, and I'm rarin' to go....er down. (That is correct, isn't it?)