"revenge is sweet, but is it worth it"

just read this thread would just like to say when my husband (now ex) left me for someone else i thought i would never get over it, and i so wanted revenge!!

i got my 'revenge' by going it alone with my two children and realising that i was a really good mum ( he said i was too stupid to ever survive on my own, and that i woud never have a decent job) that was three years ago, and yes i am still on my own, but i have a good job, my kids are well adjusted and i am so HAPPY, the ex is now miserable as sin with no money and no job propects, and his woman now nags the hell outa him!!

Look out for yourself and be happy in life!! this is the only way to get 'revenge'