Aqua-it does work for me actually I'm happy to say.....and I don't know, it is actually a bit painful at first, but I like that.....my boyfriend has generously sized hands, and I do know that I am tight..... it takes a while to end up getting more than 2 fingers in there, ending up w/ the whole hand, but it is great, and I've found that it gives a more interesting, intense orgasm as well...or a bunch of little ones while he's doing it

lilith-my goodnes, I'm sorry to hear you've had no luck, all I can really say is that lube definitely has helped solve my problem with being too snug

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