thanks for ur suggestions guys....i've thought about therapy...but I do think, obviously (and why i haven't thought of it yet, I just don't know) i'm gonna have to really come out and explain to my guy....i don't think he's felt rejected, but I also know that I have been the one to offer my breasts to him, but when it only lasts a minute, I know something has been wrong.....first step is first, I really think this is gonna work

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Kristin