Hmm, sorry then, Steph. I haven't been reading many of the posts lately. I just jumped in and it seemed a little harsh to me in this particular thread. Didn't mean to cause anything by what I said, btw. Guess I need to look before I leap...

I realise that Booger, that's why I said it's a different thing entirely... But... I also think that would depend on how fast you want it to be... If you're purposely masturbating to get off quickly, but normally like sex to be done slowly, the timing would be very different. However, I am a virgin (and proud of it) so I might not have a clue what I'm talking about.