Well, obviously I can only speak for myself (and CA!!)...... we are BOTH "clean" and CA was sterilised after the birth of her 2nd child (for medical reasons, NOT contraceptive ones!!)..... so, condom use doesn't figure in to things for us.

I think you'll find that MOST posters here are in monogamous (or almost!!) long-term relationships, and things HAVE been "taken care of" in that department!! Of course, SOME people like posting, but may be trying for a child too!! Takes all sorts, don't it?!?!

Good point though......thanx!!

DM

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind