I hate being tickled. Not because I giggle like a girl and pee myself, but because I flinch, twitch and spasm.

I could go for a good slap, but it must be done in the right context. If you walk up to me and lay your hand across me I'm gonna get my back up, but if you tie me up and slap me as you rip my clothes off, that's a little different.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.