You make it sound a little technical, and there are other things to do, too.
One of the things I love to do with another woman in bed is to have her lay on her back, with her hips rolled to the side, and I am astride her lower leg, our vaginas together, her upper leg raised over my shoulder, and we just move together, rubbing, kissing.. oh my! *fanning myself*
As I am smaller than any partner I have ever had, I am usually the one on top, more comfy for me, but I have been underneath too, and both ways are soooo nice.
OK, sitting here, bored at work, listening for footsteps in the doorway, reflecting on the lesbain side of my sexual life, I think that most of my orgasms from other women have been from fingering, receiving oral sex is second, the above position is third, and toys are fourth. ( I do LOVE strap ons, but they are a pain!) I agree that 69 is a "special event" with other women, as I like to concentrate on pleasing my partner.
I have also had an orgasm while having my nipples sucked, but I have to be VERY worked up in advance for this to happen...
I like to "give" orgasms orally, or with the position above


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