My only (traditional) blind date was 30 years ago and it was horrible! But then, I couldn't get out of it.

This scenario makes a lot more sense to me. I have never looked too hard at "gorgeous" guys because they never seem to turn out to have anything other than looks. I would balk at certain things physically, but essentially, a plain average man becomes incredibly erotic to me depending on his mind, his interest in me, his sensuality, his tolerance, and bunch of other personality and behavioural characteristics.

Hey, maybe I'd be turned on in the dark and when I saw him be totally turned OFF, but there is no reason to continue the relationship if that happened.

I love the idea!

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