Lilith...thank you. This is the first time in my life that I have had the temerity to post anything on a porn site; let alone look at one. I had a pre-conceived notion that all porn sites were garbage. How wrong I was. I'm not trying to use this as a substitution for counseling or therapy. Both of those are non-negotiable with my husband. I've posted because you and the rest of the Pixie's Folk seem to have amassed a vast encyclopaedic knowledge of sex and the human mind. I appreciate the information and answers that folks post. It is retained in my brain. Again, I thank you all for being patient with a "novice".

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